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Is God a Narcissist? Why God’s Demand for Worship Isn’t Selfish

  • By: Scott Stein, Shawn Walker
  • Apr 09, 2024
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The first commandment God gave Israel was this: “You shall have no other gods before me” (Exodus 20:3). And the rest of God’s commands and revelations throughout the Bible are consistent with this. God, and only God, is to be worshipped. Only God can get the glory.

But the skeptic looks at this and asks: “Wait a minute! If anyone else acted the way God acts, we’d call them a narcissist and accuse them of outright selfishness. So, why does God get a pass? Isn’t his demand for worship just a sign of selfish egotism?”

On surface, objections like these carry rhetorical force. They sound convincing, and often leave us speechless to respond. That’s why in this episode, Scott and Shawn sit down to talk through this objection, looking to God and his word to answer this challenge against God’s character. Tune in and discover that far from an act of selfishness, God’s command that we worship him only is born from his selfless love.

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  • Krista
    Aug 8th, 2025
    Only victims in a toxic relationship would validate narcissism as love. Once you break away from the relationship and look at it from the outside, you realize that you were being abused and never knew it.
    • Scott
      Aug 26th, 2025
      Thanks for leaving a comment Krista. I don't disagree with you that abuse and control within human relationships can be blinding, and breaking free from patterns of narcissism liberating. Do you not think there is a fundamental difference when talking about God though? What do you think it means to "break away" from God? Break away to what exactly? Where is it that you think we end up if we break outside of a relationship with the one who is the source of all life? I'm not trying to be clever, or catch you in a word trap. I'd really be interested in your thoughts on this. Thank you! - Scott Stein
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